Modifying and enforcing family law orders

Life changes. When it does, an existing custody, support, or alimony order may need to change, or be enforced.

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Modifying a custody or support order

North Carolina allows a custody or child support order to be modified when there has been a substantial change in circumstances. For custody, the change must affect the child, and the modification must serve the child's best interests. For support, a substantial change is often shown by a real shift in income or the parenting schedule.

Modifying alimony

Court-ordered alimony can usually be modified on a substantial change of circumstances. Support set by a separation agreement may be harder to change, depending on how the agreement is written, which is one reason the wording matters.

Do not just stop paying. If your circumstances change, ask the court to modify the order. Falling behind without a modification can lead to enforcement and penalties.

Enforcing an order

When the other party does not follow a custody, support, or alimony order, the court can enforce it. A common tool is a motion for contempt, which can carry consequences until the party complies. Support can also be enforced through income withholding and other remedies.

How Mr. Bet helps

Mr. Bet reviews your existing order, explains whether the facts may support a change, and handles enforcement when the other side does not comply. Call 336-786-9900.

Common questions

When can a custody order be changed in North Carolina?

A custody order can be modified when there has been a substantial change in circumstances affecting the child and a change would serve the child's best interests.

What can I do if the other parent ignores our order?

You can ask the court to enforce the order, often through a motion for contempt. A lawyer can review the order and the facts and explain your options.